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Wednesday, 14 December 2011

Allure Your Party With Wondering Valentine

valentine's day is what makes the world go round, is what the famous old adage says. Love is a feeling experienced by all and it is most talked about in poems and movies when it comes to romantic love. Shakespeare had immortalized love between a young boy and a young girl through his famous tragic story of Romeo and Juliet. Love is a natural feeling that all human beings experience. Sometimes the love we feel for a person or even a pet could be quite intense. Everyone goes through relationships based on love, but not everyone knows how to handle things in a relationship with sense and sensibility in order to maximize happiness for both partners in the relationship. A great deal of maturity is necessary to keep good relationship with ones partner and it demands bit of hard work too.

All relationships go through ups and down, but what is necessary is that we keep working at the relationship and not take it for grated. At the very first, we must have a great deal of respect for our partner and learn to accept him or her the way she or he is. There no point in changing the other person as very soon it turns out to be a much counter-productive exercise. Relationships need to be constantly nurtured and the partner should be allowed to retain individual space, only then can a relationship stay healthy. It takes time, energy, and commitment to stay attached and we have to put a brave front and hold on to our beliefs when it does not seem to be working out. Honesty and being authentic or your true self goes a long way in making the relationship healthy. Communication, and an honest, poem and constant one is crucial in making the relationship work.

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Monday, 12 December 2011

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Tuesday, 29 November 2011

Communication with your partner

Start with answering this questions:

What is your partner like? What are the things you disagree about? Do you think and feel the same about things? What are the things you feel different? For what of the issues you feel misunderstood? Do you need him/her to understand you? Do you need to understand him/her?

Some of the main issues in relationship is communications. There are either daily routines, that make you forget about that either to many other important things. Have you think ever that maybe you don't communicate anymore. He/She is changed. She doesn't react anymore same on the same things. Have tried a different new approach?

One of the main thing is to change the approach. But not only the way of saying things. The whole general feeling about that. Imagine is somebody brand new next to you. Is that the way you would say or ask something. Probably no., you would not. So, try different treatment, like somebody new. Change the emotions you bring in the question, or issues that already happen. Forget that. Treat Him/Her nice, with respect and new.

Maybe there are new thing to learn about your partner. And probably you will like the respond to that. Address with love and you will find love.

There is one book I recently both, that might be helpful in this manner , it is called 500 Questions for Couples. The whole idea is creating new approach, creating time for you two. Crating and dig the romance and love in you. It is meant to be like a third person, so it can change a marriage consultant.

Is based on questions and answers. Homework for both of you. With the questions you maybe can come up, but the order and the fact that it is not coming from you but professional person- the book, that is changing the picture. Sometimes, asking the wrong question will even leave a strain inside the relationship. You see, it is not just any question but 1 that is something that will either spark the adore to even grow brighter or encourage one another to be extra sharing and open.

Monday, 28 November 2011

The Trick to Making Friend Washington DC

When I first moved here I had no problem making Friend Washington DC. This city has so much to offer and so many wonderful sights to see, that if you're outgoing like I am you will have tons of friends in no time.

When I moved into my apartment building in the city, I made my first friend my first day there while walking my dog. It's so easy to find friends if you have an adorable animal attached to your arm. It was winter and there was snow on this grassy area in front of a church. My dog loves running in the snow so I let her loose to prance around and so did this woman who ironically has the same breed of dog as me and happened to live on the exact same floor.

It was an instant bond. I knew within five minutes that I had a Friend Washington DC. We struck up a long conversation in front of that church and then went back to the same floor and made plans to meet for coffee across the street the next morning. We also both took care of each other's dogs when one of us was out town, and also helped out with the walks when one of us had to work late.

I also found some friends online. I'm a big backgammon fan and there's this website where you can play with people in the same city on your computer. I met this one man named Rick who was at the same level as I was. I'm an excellent backgammon player and it's so disappointing to play people that aren't as good as you are. Eventually, after months of playing online he asked if I'd like to meet at a backgammon club in DC.

So Rick and I finally met and played in person. He wasn't anyone I was interested in dating. Besides, he was 30 years older then I, and was married. He just turned out to be a great Friend Washington DC. He also loves baseball. But we don't like the same teams so we would spar with each other about how our teams are doing. I also met his wife who is a wonderful woman and always bakes me brownies. I'm so glad I moved here.

Saturday, 26 November 2011

Personality and Relationships

"And above all, have fervent love for one another: for love shall cover the multitude of sins."

Most of us are probably allured by the attractive notion that effortless relationships exist. Whether it be happily-ever-after marriages, or friendships which last forever, or parent/child bonds which supercede the need to understand each other, we'd all like to believe that our most intimate relationships are unconditional, and strong enough to withstand whatever may come. However, at some point in our lives most of us need to face the fact that relationships require effort to keep them strong and positive, and that even wonderful, strong relationships can be destroyed by neglect.

Whether you're looking to improve a love relationship, familial relationships, friendships, or employer/employee relationships, understanding your own personality type and the personality type of the other person involved in the relationship will bring a new dynamic to the situation, which will allow better understanding and communication. Although the different types of relationships have very different characteristics and specific needs, there are two basic areas which seem to be critical in all relationships: Expectations and Communication. What do we expect from ourselves and the other person involved in the relationship? How do we communicate these expectations, and our feelings and opinions to the person in the relationship? How does our personality type affect our expectations and methods of communication? Does our personality type affect who we are romantically attracted to? How does it affect who our friends are, and who we work with best? These are the questions which we address in this section of The Personality Page.

Disclaimer: Please note that we are not prescribing an absolute solution to your relationship problems, nor are we stating that there's any guarantee of improved odds with particular type pairings. Statistics show that individuals who are most happy within their marriages are those who have the highest levels of inner peace and those who have the most optimistic outlook on life in general. We do not address people's emotional standing here when discussing relationship issues, which is another important aspect of relationship dynamics.

Thursday, 24 November 2011

Social Networking to Solve Friends Problems

In exploring ideas that leverage social networking to help common life situations, one idea that may be worth exploring is a system that lets friends share personal crises, problems, or challenges.

Social networks are usually driven by good, happy news about ourselves, not "I'm in trouble," "I have a personal crisis," etc. A system or an app can be developed that, with the right confidentiality settings, will enable friends to help each other with personal issues by tapping their collective experiences and contacts.

Perhaps these social apps would have much more controlled "broadcast" or "sharing" applications to get around the negative aspects of revealing a personal problem. Perhaps such systems would use a few close friends to be the "fronts" for the person with the crisis in broadcasting the issue and inviting recommendations for solutions (e.g. "My friend's losing his house, under his mortgage..."). This would get around having to disclose to hundreds your personal problem and would invite friends to pool in their personal networks and collective knowledge to help solve a crisis. I can see this working across realms like finance, health, relationships, depression, and beyond.

How will such an app make money? Contextual ads relevant to the problems (therapists, emergency loans, etc.) could be one solution. Perhaps the person with the problem could suggest a payment reward to anyone who helps them solve a problem when appropriate (e.g. "I'll pay 18% interest if anyone can loan me $10,000 for 6 months," or "$1000 if someone can find me a job or a new roommate.") But perhaps this won't apply to "I am severely depressed and just can't get out of it" types of crises.

It would be very interesting to experiment with such a model, and I think that tapping your daily feed to see what sort of things you can help your friends with would be extremely fulfilling. Perhaps you could reward people with points, but this would be a more methodical channel for those who just like to help out everyone whenever they can - to be pinged with a crisis that anyone in their network may have.

If this ever took off, it could actually help solve lots of personal problems, even bring people closer together (and hopefully make good money!).

Wednesday, 16 November 2011

How to cope with peer pressure

How you cope with peer pressure as a teenager/youth could either make or destroy you totally. Friends, colleagues and peers are there to add, remove, build, destroy, cage or liberate that hidden quality you have inside. So it is very important to know how to exist and grow even under their constant pressure as a teenager or a youth.

1. Make friends with those that soothe your life style, do not make friends out of obligation, pressure, attention, sympathy or in fulfillment of a societal views and acceptance. People must earn your friendship.

A friendship or company must respect you for who you are, it must listen to you, it must never put pressure on you in any way and it must not question your belief, your views and heritage. All of these must be considered before taking a person or group of people as friends. Always remember that friends and colleagues will always put pressure on you in all areas of your life, but the question is, is it a positive pressure or a negative one. Only you have the answers.

2. Know yourself, knowing yourself very well makes you locate and connect with your kind. Are you an introvert or an extrovert, a fun loving or a quiet person and so on? The more you are to identify your innermost personality, the better, because you are able to find the right people to move with, which helps reduce the pressure of trying to be among.

3. Build yourself an impervious mind. This kind of mind helps you sieve and remove words that are toxic to your personality. You hear them but you never act on them, especially the negative words. With this kind of mind, you are not quick to act, rather you take time to think over all that comes your way.

Like your friends might pressure you to start drinking and smoking, but if you don't allow the pressure to get through and break down your defense, then you never do what they say.

When you believe in yourself, everyone around you will start believing in you, no matter what. Just don't let the world get to you easily, be yourself and do not ever try to be like anyone else. That person might be able to cope with such personality but may not be able to.

Knowing and applying all these principles gives you an edge over all pressure that might come your way.

Tuesday, 15 November 2011

She Just Wants To Be Friends - How to Still Get Her Back

When it comes to being friends with your ex girlfriend, at first everything seems like a great idea. You get to still see her, talk to her, send emails back and forth... maybe even hang out a little. Sure you're not officially "dating" anymore, but eventually you'll get her back. I mean, just being around her is a great way of staying in her mind... and if you can keep doing sweet things for her she'll certainly come around. In no time at all, the two of you will be going back out again. Right?

Uh, not so fast.

There is some definite good news when it comes to staying friendly with a girl you still love, but there's a lot of bad news too.

The worst thing to realize, right off the bat, is that being friends with an ex is the fastest way to lose them for good. If you've got plans to one day go out with this girl again, you can't just pull up a chair and hang out in the Friend Zone for the next few weeks, months, or even years. The further removed you become from the romantic relationship you once had, the less she's going to see you as a potential mate. This means that in time, you become so hopeless enmeshed in being a friend that your ex never even considers dating you again. Friendship is the worst way to get back an ex girlfriend.

As if that weren't bad enough, establishing a friendship with your ex girlfriend will lead to an avalanche of jealousy - on both sides. First, how do you think you'll handle it when your ex starts dating someone else? Will you be angry and bitter? Will you trash this guy in front of her? Or will you act like a happy friend, clap your hands, and wish her the best? Neither one of those reactions is too appealing, nor is watching the girl you love sitting on another guy's lap.
And when he finds out you're not just her friend but also someone she slept with? This guy's going to whisk her away so fast you'll think she's in the witness protection program. You'll never see this girl again, not as long as she's dating her new boyfriend. The friendship you made after breaking up seemed so strong and unbreakable... until she found someone else that she liked better.

Now let's turn the situation around: you meet and date another girl. Do you still stay friends with your exgirlfriend? And if so, do you tell your new love interest that this was once a girl you dated, hung out with, and know so intimately? Chances are she's not going to be too happy about you continuing such a friendship. Which means you'll either do it in secret (which won't exactly feel too legit) or you'll shatter ties with your ex, causing her to be angry at how little you valued being friends with her. Either way, someone's getting hurt.

But okay, enough bad news. Let's look at the good side of things when it comes to your girlfriend wanting to remain friends.

First off, the fact that she still wants you around is a great sign that your ex isn't fully over the relationship. Most girls who are no longer interested in the guy they break up with will make a clean break: in just a few short days there's no more seeing, talking to, emailing, texting you, or any of that stuff. But if your ex asks to stay friendly? She basically wants to keep you "around", just in case she ends up changing her mind about things. It's comfortable to know you're still there for her, and that if she gets lonely enough you're only a phone call away. If your exgirlfriend wants friendship, she also wants a connection - and this can be instrumental in getting your ex back.

So how do you win back an ex girlfriend who just wants to be friends?

The answer to that question is simple in theory, but hard in practice. You need to say no.

When your ex suggests remaining friends, slowly shake your head and wave goodbye. Tell her you don't think it's such a good idea, and then walk away. Your girlfriend dumped you, but she also wanted to keep you on some levels. By refusing that role of half-boyfriend, you're forcing your ex to make a choice: all of you, or none of you. If she wants to move on then she's going to have to do it alone, because you're not going to be there for her. This will make the break up ten times more scary for your ex than if you were still holding her hand through email, phone calls, and the like.

"Let's just be friends" is a demotion, not an honor. Stand up and refuse to accept anything less than the long term relationship you really want with this girl. Don't accept bits and pieces, or table scraps from what could still be a great romance with your ex. If you want your ex back, you need to make the right moves and say the right things - there are paths that lead right back into her heart. Friendship however, is a roadblock along those paths. Push it to the side and continue on.

Saturday, 12 November 2011

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Sunday, 6 November 2011

My Friend Washington DC

I have a Friend Washington DC who I met in college. We were roomed together in the same dorm. At first, we did not get along because we argued about how to arrange the room, and we just totally could not agree on any thing! We argued about who took longer in the shower, who snored in their sleep, and who needed to get up earlier or later for classes. It took almost half of the first semester for us to get accustomed to one another's ways, but once we did, we have been inseparable ever since.

From the moment we decided to make friends with each other, there was no secret that we did not share. Washington told me everything, and I told him everything. We even pens, notebooks, and pencils, study notes, clothes, phone numbers and e-mail addresses from girls, and everything in between; what was mine was his and likewise. All throughout our four years of college, Wash and I took the same classes and fought with administration to stay in the same dorm room together. When we finally graduated, we knew that we were going to have to compromise about where we would both move to because we did not ever want to be living more than a few miles apart from each other in distance.

We decided that we would start a law firm together. That way, we could work together and there would be no reason for us to be separated. Then, we decided that we should also just rent a studio apartment together to save costs. By doing that, commuting to work together every day, and combining our savings accounts, we were able to form a strong law firm without taking out a loan, and our firm has become very successful over the years. I can not imagine a day without my Friend Washington DC in my life, and he feels the same way about me. There is no doubt in my mind that he is the best friend I have ever had in my whole life, and he is the only friend I will ever have until the day I die.

Friday, 4 November 2011

How can I figure out who is searching for me using Google search?

How do you feel when you type your name on a search engine, and find that it is already been typed by someone else? Well, this is not just your case but a case for loads of other people. In fact, almost everyone finds his/her name already on search engines. This makes a person curious enough to find ways to know the answer for who is looking for me online.

Who are the people searching for me?

Talking about identity of people who search for your name and profile online, there is no limitation on the same. They can be any body, your lost friends, lost relatives, present employer, prospective employers, person who wants to befriend you, and so on. With so much development and advancement in online technology, a lot of ways have been evolved through which it has become extremely simple to know all about the person who is looking for you.
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