Making Friendships: 2011

Wednesday, 14 December 2011

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valentine's day is what makes the world go round, is what the famous old adage says. Love is a feeling experienced by all and it is most talked about in poems and movies when it comes to romantic love. Shakespeare had immortalized love between a young boy and a young girl through his famous tragic story of Romeo and Juliet. Love is a natural feeling that all human beings experience. Sometimes the love we feel for a person or even a pet could be quite intense. Everyone goes through relationships based on love, but not everyone knows how to handle things in a relationship with sense and sensibility in order to maximize happiness for both partners in the relationship. A great deal of maturity is necessary to keep good relationship with ones partner and it demands bit of hard work too.

All relationships go through ups and down, but what is necessary is that we keep working at the relationship and not take it for grated. At the very first, we must have a great deal of respect for our partner and learn to accept him or her the way she or he is. There no point in changing the other person as very soon it turns out to be a much counter-productive exercise. Relationships need to be constantly nurtured and the partner should be allowed to retain individual space, only then can a relationship stay healthy. It takes time, energy, and commitment to stay attached and we have to put a brave front and hold on to our beliefs when it does not seem to be working out. Honesty and being authentic or your true self goes a long way in making the relationship healthy. Communication, and an honest, poem and constant one is crucial in making the relationship work.

Teenage love is often a crush and based on immaturity. Youngsters too fall in love and are curious to know who would be their ideal partner. There are numerous websites offering tons of advice and relevant information on love. In short the websites offer everything for people in Love. Websites have a variety of stuff based on love such as different Love tests, love meter and love calculator to check love and calculate love percentage and love compatibility. Love match games are interesting love games in which the players go about dealing with various situations in order to find their loved ones. They are very exciting games and played by many, especially the teenagers. They are quite popular as they are based on favorite cartoon characters.

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Tuesday, 13 December 2011

Friends are the best part of life

Friendship is a feeling of love and affection of one person for another. This feeling of love must be reciprocated. Otherwise friendship cannot be possible. Friendship does not exist where tastes, feelings and sentiments are not similar.

The famous essayist Bacon has warned against the friendship between a very rich person and a very poor person. Economic disparity damages friendship. Thus friendship is a feeling of affection between two likeminded persons of uniform status.

It is said that a friend in need is a friend in deed. There may be many friends at the time of prosperity. But most of them desert at the time of adversity. We can examine the sincerity of a friend during our time of hardship and trouble. Only a sincere and faithful friend remains with us at the time of our trouble. All others leave us. It is very painful when our friends turn traitors.

Money is an enemy of friendship. Everybody has an attraction for money. When lending or borrowing of money is done between two friends, there is great risk. Friendship may be affected. So it is wise for true friends to avoid monetary transaction. Vanity is another element which breaks friendship. Everybody has self-respect. When a person tries to criticise his friend, their friendship is affected. So friendship must be treated very delicately.

Very often some hypocrites pretend to be friends. They are more dangerous than avowed enemies. By telling soft words they bring enormous ruin to us. A true friend never exploits. He rather surrenders. But at present, the meaning of friendship has changed.

There are many fair-weathered friends. They terminate their friendly tie as soon as their interests are fulfilled. It is very difficult to find a true friend today. It is better to establish true friendship with either a dog or an elephant. Both these beasts will remain faithful to their human friends. Today, friendship between two persons is short-lived.

Good friends exercise good influence. They always help their friends, in distress and inspire them to walk on the right path. But evil friends ruin us completely.

Monday, 12 December 2011

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Sunday, 11 December 2011

Women and Friendship: Building the Foundation

Friendship can be one of the saving graces in the lives of many women today. Women who are in stressful jobs, unhappy marriages, toxic dating relationships and troubling parenting roles are looking to their friends for an anchor. Unfortunately some of the friendships that are meant to be a support are greatly missing the mark. Too many women are backstabbing one another, giving harmful advice or encouraging one another to take actions that are not helpful.

Below are a few rules of engagement for healthy, supportive friendships. When women have strong, healthy friendships, they can be life-saving. These rules will help create the strongest networks with the most positive influence.

1. Be honest. Too many women blindly back their friends' behaviors even when the behaviors are off. Blindly backing one another is not helpful. If your friend was off in an argument with her child, partner or friend, don't just agree with her that the other person was a jerk. Relationally tell her what you think. Also, don't lie to your friend about how she looks, why you can't go out with her or anything else. Lying breaks trust. Say the hard thing relationally and don't cover it up.

2. Encourage her to find happiness within herself, not through someone else. Women are trying to prove their worth through the attractions of men. Don't push your friends to "find a man" in order to feel happy. When you need a man to make you happy, you will meet the wrong kind of man -- one who is likely to make you miserable. With your friends, be each other's support rather than pushing each other to desperately find someone to complete them.

3. Do not talk poorly behind a friend's back. If you have a problem with a friend, speak with them directly. If you are angry, hurt, concerned, annoyed or (fill in the blank), go directly to the source. Nothing can be solved if you're talking to the wrong person. Take the high road and refuse to speak behind their back.

Friendships can be one of the most significant relationships in your life. They have the power to influence you that no other relationship can. Be sure that you surround yourself with people whose influence will be for your better, not worse. Hold yourself to that same expectation.

4. Be supportive not competitive. A true friend celebrates another friend's success. Women continually try to downplay their successes with one another so other women don't feel upset or jealous. Downplaying your success is crazy. Be proud of each other and encourage one another to go even further.

5. Hands off significant others. Although this should go without saying, I'm going to say it anyway. Stay away from your friend's partner. I'm shocked at how many "best friends" have had affairs with their friend's spouse. Really? Do not play with fire when it comes to your friend's partner. Don't flirt, don't cry on their shoulder, don't listen to the partner complain about your friend. And if you hear or see that your friend's partner is seeing someone else - your loyalty is to your friend - tell her!

6. Be the friend you wish to have. Friendships are a balance of give and take so be sure that you are neither always giving nor always taking. Ask for help when you need it and offer help when you know they need it.

In general, creating healthy friendships requires healthy people. Pay attention to who you hang out with and be sure that they are building you up, not tearing you down. Make sure you are doing the same for them. A friend is someone you can count on to lovingly give you the truth (even if it hurts), proudly cheer your successes on (even if she hasn't been as successful) and gives you advice that's in your best interest (even if she doesn't follow it herself).

Be the friend you wish to be with and hold your friends to the same level of expectation.

Challenge #1: Take an honest look at yourself and your friendships and see what you notice. Look at the list above, choose one tip to incorporate that you think will help in your friendships and ask your friends to do the same.

Challenge #2: For the next three weeks, pay attention to how you follow the rules above. Are you honest - even when it's difficult? Do you encourage your friend's successes or try to hold her down? Do you talk behind your friend's back when you're angry or do you go directly to her and discuss your upset? Choose one tip from above that you need to work on and be diligent about doing so. Notice any shifts you see as a result.

Saturday, 10 December 2011

Why It Is Good For a Man to Be Just Friends With a Woman

Quite often you will hear the debate about whether or not it is good for men and women to be just friends. Now, I won't delve into the area of whether or not committed couples should have close opposite sex friends. What I want to explore is whether or not single men can benefit from being just friends with a woman. To be upfront about it, my position is that it is one of the best things that a man can do. Most guys have too few female friends and they pay a price for this.

It's not uncommon for a man to reach his mid twenties without really having much of a grasp at all on how the female mind works. It's all too common for guys to look at women as being only possible mates and nothing more. While some of that definitely is due to the way that we are "wired" to be, a lot of that also has to do with societal conditioning that separates the girls and the boys at a young age. So, it is not entirely natural for things to be that way.

Here's why I think it is beneficial for a guy to be just friends with a woman:

I alluded to why in the previous paragraph, but I will expand on it here. As I mentioned, it's pretty routine for a man to reach into his mid twenties and even beyond that age and still have absolutely no clue as to the way that women really are. These guys will instead possess an idealized image of the way that they think women should be like, and many times this prevents them from really having quality relationships.

Had they had more opposite sex friendships, they probably would lose that idealized image of the way that women are "supposed" to be. I know I did. What happens when a guy gets to have some insights into the ways that women really think and feel and act is... he gets to see a much more realistic picture and so, when he gets into a long term relationship, there are far fewer surprises that cause conflicts.

There is also the fact that men and women tend to socialize in a slightly different manner and this is where it really becomes beneficial for a guy to have female friends, because in order to get into that long term relationship... he has to know how to make a woman feel attracted to him. As a teenager, I did not start off with too many female friends and I honestly had no clues at all about how to make a girl like me.

By the time I reached my late teens, I had made many female friends and all of a sudden, it seemed pretty easy to create attraction with a woman. It all came from the fact that I had learned through my female friends and their experiences with guys, what worked and what did not work. I wasn't one of those guys that got locker room advice from the fellas who had no greater clue than I did... I got REAL insights that showed me what worked like a charm and what to avoid at all costs.

In being just friends with women, a guy not only picks up insights that will make him more successful with women, he also gets insights into what women actually are like in all their moments, not just a few snips here and there. That is something that guys who do not have female friends just do not get to experience and it ends up causing them lots of heartaches, lots of confusion, and lots of lonely nights.

When should a guy make it a point to pick up some female friends?

The earlier the better in my opinion. However, when he is really trying to get women figured out, that is probably the BEST time possible. So many guys get to a point where they really desire to have a girlfriend, but they are stuck in catch 22 kind of situation, because their lack of female friends means they lack the ability to create real attraction with women and to know what little social cues to use to make that attraction grow to where she wants to be their girlfriend.

Friday, 9 December 2011

Make Friends and Meet People Washington DC

When I was transferred here for my job, I really wanted to Meet People Washington DC. I didn't care that much about meeting a man as I was in just making friends. I made several friends with people in my office, but I am very guarded about letting co-workers know too much about my personal life because that got me into sensitive situations in the past.

I'm not into social networking any more but when I was I allowed my co-workers to "friend" me. That gave them access to where I was and a whole bunch of other personal information that was none of their business. I only "friended" them because I was new to the company and though it would be rude to reject their friend request. I have since closed my account and no one can know my business any longer. But let's get back to my meet people in Washington DC.

Thank God I'm an incredibly open and friendly person who doesn't mind striking up a conversation with a woman working on her computer at a coffee place. Or if I see someone holding a tennis racquet, I'll ask him or her where they play tennis and ask for their phone number so that I can get more information about their tennis club. Then during that conversation - especially if it's a woman - I'll then ask them if they want to play together. To Meet People Washington DC and gather a nice, fun group of friends isn't that hard. You just have to be open to the idea of making friends.

The question is where to meet people? If you're shy and not as outgoing as I am, don't worry. There are social networking sites that organize events such as hiking trips, dancing lessons, wine tasting, and so many more great activities.

So if you're the shy type, sign up with those sites and Meet People Washington DC. Believe me, there are so many people out there that are shy as well just dying to make friends and meet new people. So get in front of your computer and search for the social networking sites. I've gone to several of their events and they're terrific!

Thursday, 8 December 2011

The Most Shocking Email I Ever Received. How I Grow From It

Now for respect reasons for you, the reader, I will not be copying the email here for everyone to see. It is not pretty so I will try to make the point as clear as I can.

Last year I was starting to have many problems with my daughter, who was then 16. She was rebelling and not following pretty serious rules and this carried on all spring and into the winter so I had to follow what I thought best as a parent, as we all do. Now, I was also planning for my own wedding that I was putting on myself in my backyard in October. My daughter was to be my maid of honor which meant she should help, right?

That was fine at the time. I just wanted for us to be okay and her to follow my rules and we were really trying hard to work it out with compromise. Each new thing worked for a small time period and then, boom, back at square one. So stressful at the time. I was losing weight but not in the healthy way.

I was always asking for and receiving advice all the time and some did help. One huge role in my daughter's life is my mother who has been a big influence since she was born, since I was only 18 when I had her.

The wedding came and went. It was absolutely perfect. Then shortly after my daughter was continuing on breaking the rules as usual. No honeymoon as you can imagine. In November my daughter had been living other places but also breaking rules and doing just what she wanted when she wanted so we had to keep taking it to the next level.

I ended up kicking her out in December. She had a full time social worker who had been absolutely wonderful for both of us throughout this. She then started her adventures of teen shelters. She bounced through 3 total because, yes, she didn't follow rules.

My mother, apparently had some feelings she was not sharing with me at the time and let them build up until December 23rd after midnight, probably after a few cocktails. I, of course got the email on Christmas Eve when I had to spend the day alone. Not pretty for most of the day.

It basically stated my whole name, my maiden name, and yelling at me how disappointed she was in me and slamming me for every mistake I ever made as a young mother and what a horrible person I was and she did not care to speak to me again. That sums it up. I was mortified.

I responded to the tune of, I hope you find yourself someday and isn't it funny how the school and social workers all support me. My husband responded in a very different manner, which also cannot be repeated.

I still have not heard an apology or have I talked to her since. I think maybe someday she will sincerely apologize but knowing her, I just don't know.

The moral to the story is that is changed my life by opening my eyes to the fact that you are only as good as the people you surround yourself with and that does include your family. I went on to educate myself through an online marketing community that is just full of the most amazingly supportive people I have ever known. The world really is a big place and in the past year I have learned to stop letting others drag me down with them.

I will leave it at that for now because I will being writing more on all the moments and relationships that have changed my life in the last year.

Wednesday, 7 December 2011

Who to Attend a New Years Eve Dance Washington DC With

If you are planning on going to a New Years Eve Dance Washington DC, and you are unsure of who to bring with you, this article will help you decide on an answer to that question.

What is your main goal for meeting people at the event? Would you say you are especially interested in meeting new people, open to meeting new people but fine if you do not, or not intending on meeting new people? If you are interested in meeting new people at a New Years Gala, it does not matter whether or not you bring a friend or group of friends; the same goes for if you are open but it does not matter. If you are not intent on meeting new people, you should bring a date, a friend, or go with a group of friends so that you are not alone.

Are you interested in meeting singles at a New Years Eve Dance Washington DC? If so, you could bring a friend or a group of friends. It will be nice to have your possible future date meet your friends and see you "in your element". Plus, your friend(s) could always help introduce you to new people. If you come with one or two friends of the opposite sex, it may appear to others as if you already have a date. Either way, as long as you look like you are having fun, you will be more approachable, and you are more likely to be smiling and laughing with your friends.

If you are not really interested in meeting singles at the New Years Gala Dinner, that is fine. You should always be open to making new friends. Coming with a group of close guy or girl friends or with other couples is a great way to enjoy the night. Who knows, you might just introduce your friend to the new love of their life!

Couples are encouraged to come with their partners to the New Years Eve Dance Washington DC. You will have the time of your life, and you do not want the love of your life to miss out on any of it.

Tuesday, 6 December 2011

Have Fun While You Meet People Washington DC

I meet people wherever I go, so it's no surprise that I found it so easy to Meet People Washington DC. I'll strike up a conversation with anyone who seems friendly and that's how I have become comfortably situated in every city I've lived in through my entire career. I'm constantly getting transferred from office to office so packing up and moving every two years is nothing new.

One of the first things I do when I arrive in a new city is figure out how to meet people with similar interests. By looking in the local papers and scouring the Internet I can start signing up for classes that interest me. From ballroom dancing lessons, to cooking classes and even rock climbing outings, there's never a shortage of events to attend. Since I am mostly looking for female companionship - not that I wouldn't like a man in every city I've lived in- there are several women at these events and since I'm really good at talking to strangers and making follow-up plans, it makes it even easier to find friends.

Some men and women can never Meet People Washington DC because they just don't make the effort. You can't expect to show up in a new city, go to your job, come home to your cats, eat dinner in front of the TV, and magically meet other people.

A co-worker of mine who is painfully shy has recently warmed up to me. We went out for a drink after work and I invited her to an event that we were both mutually interested. In the beginning she found it difficult to speak to anyone else other than me, but as the night went on she began to meet people and enjoy herself more and more as the night wore on. The next day at work she told me that she had a blast. You can't cure shyness overnight but she was more than welcome to tag along as much as she wants to.

As I said, I love meeting new people, but Meet People Washington DC was a special place to make new friends because it's such a stimulating fast-paced city.

Monday, 5 December 2011

Ways to Make a Great First Impression

We are all looking for genuine ways to connect with others, build lasting relationships and expand our networking circle. So when is a good time to network, promote or brand yourself? How about whenever you are out in the world, standing in line at the grocery store, or in an environment where a lot of people are.

You are always networking and building relationships so focus on getting to know people that can be of value to you and that you can be of value to them. So how do you go about making a great first impression?

Most people go to networking events with the intention of telling someone about their service or product, or giving them their elevator pitch and hope that someone says; "I need that or I know someone that needs that." You are entering a new environment from a stand point that is one sided or greedy. You are approaching the situation from a self serving position and you are only thinking about what you can get from them.

First you need to develop visibility, credibility, and profitability. If you were to turn the self serving approach around and say, "how can I be of service or help you," the outcome would be very different and extremely beneficial to all parties involved.

You are going to have to go out in the world and be of benefit to others, this creates visibility. The need to be able to talk about what you do is very important, but not right from the beginning. You need to build credibility with the other person or networking group. They need to know that if you offer them something, you can deliver. "Success comes from making promises and keeping them." Jack Canfield That builds trust, it builds relationships, which builds long term connectivity and profitability.

So once you've established a connection and get to know someone at an event or networking function, ask the question, "what do you need right now, what are the 2 most important projects you are working on right now?" What's the greatest challenge you are facing right now? Whatever it might be, find out what they need and then follow through.

Then the next question to ask is, "what can I do to help you get to where you want to go?" Here's an example. During a coaching session, I asked my client what they needed and how could I help them? My client was specific about what they needed as far as being more organized and having a step by step plan of accomplishing goals. I used techniques to provide them with organization and steps to stay on task. They received what they needed by way of organization and goal setting skills and I helped them get from where they are to were they wanted to be. You want to deliver what you've promised to deliver. Look at networking as the beginning of a relationship.

Also, you want to be able to tell them what you need. Be very clear about what it is you need. If you need help personally, like a job referral because your son needs work, or your need a consult because your mother has breast cancer. Or you may need financial assistance, like a financial advisor, there maybe a certain market you want to penetrate, a key initiative or important connection you want to start or meet. Whatever it is, be specific. You want to have maybe 2 very important and pressing matters addressed because you don't want to spread yourself thin and be all over the place.

Once you've established yourself with visibility and credibility, the profits will follow. You better believe that when you ask them for help, they are going to return the favor. Now that you've delivered on their concerns, this puts you in direct line to receive what you want. This is part of building a network of like minded professional individuals that will promote you and your products because of the trust, honor and friendship you've created.

The last thing you want to do is follow up. Many of us go to networking functions and collect a hand full of business cards and end up throwing them in a box, on your desk or putting a rubber band around them. Follow up with the potential connections, prospects, or clients. Make sure there is something you can do for them. Like provide them with a new product, send them one of your articles, or a news clipping you found out they were interested in, or send them a birthday card. You want to keep you on top of their mind.

Focus on creating a long term relationship. Your goal is to build a relationship. Ask the question as to how you can be of service to them. "If you help enough people get what they want, you will always have what you want." Zig Ziglar. Figure out how you can provide a solution to their problem and follow up. And remember to be clear about the challenge you want resolved about your life or current situation. This makes it a fair and even exchange were everybody gets what they want.

Sunday, 4 December 2011

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In 2005, Vickie Guerrero began to make cameo appearances during the feud between her husband Eddie Guerrero and Rey Mysterio, which had escalated when Eddie promised to reveal a secret concerning Mysterio's son, Dominick. Vickie was on the July 14 episode of SmackDown! with two of Eddie's three daughters to stop Eddie from revealing Mysterio's secret. Eddie promised not to reveal the secret should he lose to Mysterio at The Great American Bash,though that turned out to be another one of his character's trademark lies, as Eddie revealed that Dominick was really his biological son. Vickie later reappeared at SummerSlam to convince Eddie to put a stop to his war with Mysterio and not to go through with the "Custody of Dominick" ladder match that night.When that failed, she cost him the match by pushing over the ladder he was on as he was about to win.On November 13, 2005, Eddie Guerrero died of heart failure in his Minneapolis hotel room and was found by his nephew Chavo.On-screen, this led to Rey Mysterio, Eddie's real-life friend, getting more screen time and higher profile matches, including defeating Kurt Angle and Randy Orton at WrestleMania 22 for the World Heavyweight Championship.

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Saturday, 3 December 2011

Patience Pays, In All Relationships

We tell ourselves and also others to have patience, especially in crisis but somehow when it comes to the crunch, impatience takes over, panic sets in and the end result is certainly not what we would have ideally liked.

Most people learn the value of patience the hard way, as they go through hardships and experience the adverse outcomes of impatience and haste.

For a few though, patience is part of their temperament and nature. They are calm and collected even in the most challenging situations.

When it especially comes to relationships, patience pays rich dividends. Relationships can be strong and supportive and they can be delicate and fragile as well. Losing your temper, hurting the other person's feelings, saying spiteful words in a fit of rage (even though you didn't mean it) … these are all terribly damaging to any relationship. Regretting your words later may be too late to repair the damage.

I am listing here a few relationship tips that will help you avoid distress and agony in your love and marriage relationships, or for that matter, all kinds of relationships. These are universal values that create the foundation of all strong and successful relationships and my advice would be for you to remember them, especially in stressful situations:

1.‘Ten thoughts before one word' – Think before you speak rather than doing it the other way around. Most often, we blurt out words we didn't mean and then start thinking about how they might hurt the other person. Rather than thinking after speaking, think ten times before uttering the words. Remember, words are like arrows – once they shoot out of your quiver, you cannot make them return.

Therefore, choose your words with care. Especially when you find yourself in the middle of an argument or a miscommunication in a love relationship or at the receiving end of a friend or colleague's complaints or grievances. Do not fly off the handle. If you also start yelling and fuming, you will find yourself slipping further away from a resolution to the conflict. Take a deep breath, listen to the other person quietly, while thinking hard on what will help resolve the stressful situation. Avoid reacting with anger or animosity. You will find that the other person will appreciate your patience and listen to your words later with more composure and respect. You will not only be able to help the other person see reason, you will also make the foundation of your love or marriage relationship with that person stronger.

2.Control on your temper – Life is not always perfect. Hence, there is no guarantee that everything will always work according to your wishes. There are so many things that take place throughout the day over which you don't have any control.

Traffic snarls that delay you, files that go missing, a virus attack on your computer or database messing up all your hard work, children crying and causing havoc at home, coming back late from work and finding the house in a mess, dinner getting burnt and so on. Murphy's Law says, "If anything can go wrong, it will."

Try to take situations that don't match up to your liking in stride as essential parts of life. Problems help you appreciate value of good things. Face the problems with calmness and fortitude. If you keep your patience, you will find the solution. If you fret and fume with impatience, the problem will remain as it is or become worse. Panic and anger only complicate things further whereas patience and good sense help you get to the desired result.

3.Be calm when reacting to the other's mistakes – In any relationship, there may be times when the other person makes a mistake which may cost you dearly. If you go hammer and tongs at the other person, be it a friend or colleague or your spouse or even the special person in your life – you will only end up making that person feel insulted, guilty, nervous and panicked. Place yourself in the other's shoes and you will realize how painful this experience can be. Such needless bickering can spell doom for a love or marriage relationship. A handful of patience is worth more than a bushel of brains to preserve and protect your bonding.

If you deal with such situations with maturity and patience, you will help the other person realize the gravity of the mistake and also give him/her the confidence to rectify it. Above all, you will earn respect for your calm and wise behavior.

4.Do not fret over small issues – "Difficult times have helped me to understand better than before, how infinitely rich and beautiful life is in every way, and that so many things that one goes worrying about are of no importance whatsoever..." - Isak Dinesen

Stop worrying and getting worked up on small issues. Every love relationship or marriage relationship, or any relationship for that matter, goes through ups and downs. Celebrate the ups and take the downs in stride and do not fret over the small stuff. Your relationships with your loved ones will be more successful, strong and supportive if you stay away from picking arguments and fights over trivial matters.

Always remember you cannot change anyone including your spouse. People change themselves. The best you can do is to enlighten people about the ways to improve themselves and keep your patience until it happens.

And whenever you feel angry and lose control, try to listen to some soothing music or read some inspirational and relationship quotes. Or watch motivational relationship advice videos that help you understand the importance of patience and offer practical love advice on love and relationships.

So next time you are in a stressful situation, stay calm and be patient. Patience pays, really!

Friday, 2 December 2011

Friendship is not by force but willingly

This is because most people confuse the word friendship; so what is friendship? Here are some key points that can lead us to the correct definition of friendship.

We are always the highest value, and it seems that our life is stagnant or declining may indicate a fact, we are not in good standing. When a person is in a bad relationship, then it is clear that friendship can be established. The level of growth and progress they make in life is a function of the level of friends to join. Each year we analyze the number of friends to keep and those who have no value my life is immediately rejected. Why has a choice in the type of friends warned, is for me to decide to continue or discontinue a relationship with someone to call a friend.

There are two ways of life, the road to success and failure of the road. The location of these streets is usually filled with a barrier or another, all to ensure that we reach our destiny in life. One of the things that can help us in our journey towards the destiny that God has ordered life is the ability to combine good friends. Our friends will help align our radar, our destiny in life. It should be noted here, a friendship can be fun when both parties move in the same direction. As interest and your friends will be around until the end, it's time to call out.

If you have a touch of envy among those who call upon our friends, when we send on their excellent results, this is not a good sign. I've seen people get upset because their friends have just bought a new car. Spirit of jealousy is a destructive spirit, which obstruct the free love and unity among friends.

I once had a relationship for almost a year, I thought that someone close to my heart. The day came when I realized the need to evaluate the relationship. I meditate on the friendship and it was clear that I was not honest with myself. The relationship was going nowhere, and this was due to the fact that we never had a specific goal from the beginning. We were just going to the starting point and deceive us, but it was all taken. Some friends do not tell us the truth, what I feel inside for fear of hurting us. Honesty is the foundation of any true friendship, and as long as there is, nothing good can come of such a relationship.

Thursday, 1 December 2011

How to Increase Twitter Followers

Social Network websites are one of the best ways to stay in contact with your family and friends plus a way to make new friends. Social networking websites like Twitter, Facebook, Google+ and many more are among the top websites and has millions of users.

Twitter is also a social networking website, millions of tweets are posted daily, and the number of users has increased so much that Twitter made applications for Mac and iPhones too. Having more followers has become a trend on Twitter and people who are new on twitter want to be followed more.

So, if you really want to increase your followers on twitter let me tell you some important things from which you can have instant followers on twitter, the first thing to increase followers on twitter is to follow everyone, because the more you become everybody's follower the more followers you will get. Especially follow those who follow you. Secondly retweet a lot, because the people love when you share some interesting thing and hence it increases your twitter followers instantly.

For increasing twitter followers follow everyone that is on the SocialNewsWatch list, because by following them you easily get around 200 followers. One of the best ways to increase your followers on twitter is to tweet a lot! Because no matter what are you doing at the moment, just tweet about it because it helps you increase your followers.

Ask your friends and followers to digg, retweet a post for you because that will feature you on the Digg homepage and you will surely have increased number of followers on twitter. You can also increase followers on twitter if you search for the tweets that have keywords similar to your tweet because people with same interests will surely follow each other.

People, who actually reply you back on your tweets, make an effort to let them stay your follower. Prune back the non followers from your account time to time. For increasing followers on twitter use different tools like Raven Event Tracking, because it helps you tag specific campaigns on your twitter page.

Another way of increasing twitter followers is to make your twitter account interesting, by making it a forum of public opinions, because the more unique your account will be, the more followers you will have. If you have a website of your own, then promote you twitter account on that website and it will increase your followers having some interest in your work.

So, increasing twitter followers is fun, and if you are a new twitter user then of course above mentioned tops will be highly useful for you. Follow these tips for increasing followers on twitter and make the best use of this social networking website.

Wednesday, 30 November 2011

How To Get Your Girlfriend Back to Her Happier Mood – 4 Simple And Effective Tips

You can't seem to get another mood out of your girlfriend these days except irritation. The outings, your jokes and habits and the little moments you used to enjoy before all seem to have the wrong effect on her. All in all, the relationship has sunk to a hopeless level. Well, not quite. Things may look very bleak now, but with the right strategy and concerted effort, you can get your girlfriend back. So, pay attention!

1. Stop Arguing

If your girlfriend stays irritable around you, chances are that the gloomy mood has led to quite a few unpleasant arguments. Well, you have to make some effort to change that. If you can't change the mood straightaway, try to at least stop the arguing. Just take a step back the next time the mood reaches boiling point, and you may even find that the cause of the arguing is quite silly and avoidable, such as her choice of dress on a dinner outing. Naturally, taking a step back is easier said than done, but if you are able to close your eyes and calm yourself down, you will realize what amazing power this simple move has. Not only will you be able to pull yourself out of the argument, even she will respond more calmly, getting your girlfriend back requires a deep understanding of her emotions.
2. Appreciate Her

Perhaps you have begun to take her and the little things she does for you for granted. That's a grave mistake if you want to get her back. There is nothing better received than a word of appreciation, especially when it is deserved. When was the last time you told her that she looked beautiful? Or that you love her for the wonderful meal she cooks for you on Saturdays? If she realizes that you see the beauty in her and appreciate the things she does, you may just find her irritation melt away like a miracle.

3. Understand ‘Why?'

Instead of getting upset and angry over each of the meaningless and nasty arguments you have had, try and identify the real cause of her irritable mood. There is something about you that irritates or bothers her, and you can only do something about it when you know what it is. You may even want to talk to her, if you are confused or unsure. However, make sure your conversation is calm and without confrontation. Bear in mind that sometimes it may just be some of your little habits that have culminated into being a major irritant for her.

4. Spending a Happy Moment

If you want to get back your girlfriend, you need to think of ways to spend time with her that she will find fun and interesting. Creating the circumstances for a happy day or romantic evening, will make a bad mood highly unlikely. Besides, the effects of one good day spent could well last for very long.

In your effort to get your girlfriend back, you need to prepare yourself to make the effort and be patient. She is going through a bad moment and probably doesn't like herself for this irritable behavior. If you help her come out of it, you will win her regard like you have never had it before, and both of you will be all the happier for it, after all she is your girlfriend and it is important to get her back.

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Tuesday, 29 November 2011

Communication with your partner

Start with answering this questions:

What is your partner like? What are the things you disagree about? Do you think and feel the same about things? What are the things you feel different? For what of the issues you feel misunderstood? Do you need him/her to understand you? Do you need to understand him/her?

Some of the main issues in relationship is communications. There are either daily routines, that make you forget about that either to many other important things. Have you think ever that maybe you don't communicate anymore. He/She is changed. She doesn't react anymore same on the same things. Have tried a different new approach?

One of the main thing is to change the approach. But not only the way of saying things. The whole general feeling about that. Imagine is somebody brand new next to you. Is that the way you would say or ask something. Probably no., you would not. So, try different treatment, like somebody new. Change the emotions you bring in the question, or issues that already happen. Forget that. Treat Him/Her nice, with respect and new.

Maybe there are new thing to learn about your partner. And probably you will like the respond to that. Address with love and you will find love.

There is one book I recently both, that might be helpful in this manner , it is called 500 Questions for Couples. The whole idea is creating new approach, creating time for you two. Crating and dig the romance and love in you. It is meant to be like a third person, so it can change a marriage consultant.

Is based on questions and answers. Homework for both of you. With the questions you maybe can come up, but the order and the fact that it is not coming from you but professional person- the book, that is changing the picture. Sometimes, asking the wrong question will even leave a strain inside the relationship. You see, it is not just any question but 1 that is something that will either spark the adore to even grow brighter or encourage one another to be extra sharing and open.

Monday, 28 November 2011

The Trick to Making Friend Washington DC

When I first moved here I had no problem making Friend Washington DC. This city has so much to offer and so many wonderful sights to see, that if you're outgoing like I am you will have tons of friends in no time.

When I moved into my apartment building in the city, I made my first friend my first day there while walking my dog. It's so easy to find friends if you have an adorable animal attached to your arm. It was winter and there was snow on this grassy area in front of a church. My dog loves running in the snow so I let her loose to prance around and so did this woman who ironically has the same breed of dog as me and happened to live on the exact same floor.

It was an instant bond. I knew within five minutes that I had a Friend Washington DC. We struck up a long conversation in front of that church and then went back to the same floor and made plans to meet for coffee across the street the next morning. We also both took care of each other's dogs when one of us was out town, and also helped out with the walks when one of us had to work late.

I also found some friends online. I'm a big backgammon fan and there's this website where you can play with people in the same city on your computer. I met this one man named Rick who was at the same level as I was. I'm an excellent backgammon player and it's so disappointing to play people that aren't as good as you are. Eventually, after months of playing online he asked if I'd like to meet at a backgammon club in DC.

So Rick and I finally met and played in person. He wasn't anyone I was interested in dating. Besides, he was 30 years older then I, and was married. He just turned out to be a great Friend Washington DC. He also loves baseball. But we don't like the same teams so we would spar with each other about how our teams are doing. I also met his wife who is a wonderful woman and always bakes me brownies. I'm so glad I moved here.

Sunday, 27 November 2011

Free Santa Mail

Santa Claus is the busiest man during the Christmas season. Millions of children sit waiting for the man in the red suit to arrive and bring presents for them on Christmas. In anticipation of that moment, children make lists of the things they want and hang up their stockings on the wall. The tradition of giving gifts on Christmas is as old as the festival itself. A special addition can be made to a child's Christmas through free Santa mail. A personalized letter from Santa is a unique gift for a child, one that he will treasure for life. Parents have the option of getting free Santa mail deliver a personalized letter to their children from the North Pole.

There are hundreds of websites which provide free Santa mail. Each year, thousands of parents opt for a letter from Santa for their children. However, the fact that they are providing this service for free has caused a little bit of complacency to slip in. You would want that your child's Christmas experience be enhanced by the Santa mail he receives. This is not the case with a majority of free Santa mail providers.

This does not mean that all of the free Santa mail websites are fake and just doing a routine job. Yet, more and more people are opting for paid Santa mail instead. Paid Santa mail won't cost you an arm and a leg so you needn't worry. Getting a personalized letter from Santa for your child is not going to put a serious dent on your pocket. There are many reasons for choosing paid Santa mail.

Personalized Letter from Santa

Paid Santa mail providers mean it when they say that the letter will be personalized. You have the chance to select each and every aspect of the letter you want your child to receive. Unlike free letters, the content isn't generic and posted to a predefined format. Each new child gets a unique letter.

Choosing Templates

You can select any template you want. Free Santa mail providers have written content with every layout so when you choose a template; they just print it on and send it. Instead, you can choose your child's favorite colors or things he likes. This is important to make your child feel happy when he receives the letter.

Overall Quality

From content to layout to paper quality, paid Santa mail is a better option. They provide value for money and each dime you spend is worth it. When you are getting something for free, you can't expect too much.

Choosing paid Santa mail for your child is a great way to get him a personalized letter from Santa. Money isn't worth more than your child's smile! With the vast amount of sites out there, one of the most original and a reputable site for Christmas well-wishers is northpolepostoffice.com. It is a great option to send letters from Santa to your loved ones.

Saturday, 26 November 2011

Personality and Relationships

"And above all, have fervent love for one another: for love shall cover the multitude of sins."

Most of us are probably allured by the attractive notion that effortless relationships exist. Whether it be happily-ever-after marriages, or friendships which last forever, or parent/child bonds which supercede the need to understand each other, we'd all like to believe that our most intimate relationships are unconditional, and strong enough to withstand whatever may come. However, at some point in our lives most of us need to face the fact that relationships require effort to keep them strong and positive, and that even wonderful, strong relationships can be destroyed by neglect.

Whether you're looking to improve a love relationship, familial relationships, friendships, or employer/employee relationships, understanding your own personality type and the personality type of the other person involved in the relationship will bring a new dynamic to the situation, which will allow better understanding and communication. Although the different types of relationships have very different characteristics and specific needs, there are two basic areas which seem to be critical in all relationships: Expectations and Communication. What do we expect from ourselves and the other person involved in the relationship? How do we communicate these expectations, and our feelings and opinions to the person in the relationship? How does our personality type affect our expectations and methods of communication? Does our personality type affect who we are romantically attracted to? How does it affect who our friends are, and who we work with best? These are the questions which we address in this section of The Personality Page.

Disclaimer: Please note that we are not prescribing an absolute solution to your relationship problems, nor are we stating that there's any guarantee of improved odds with particular type pairings. Statistics show that individuals who are most happy within their marriages are those who have the highest levels of inner peace and those who have the most optimistic outlook on life in general. We do not address people's emotional standing here when discussing relationship issues, which is another important aspect of relationship dynamics.

Friday, 25 November 2011

A Woman With No Hometown

We moved so often when I was growing up in a U.S. Air Force family that packing our all our belongings and leaving town seemed a routine occurrence. Some of my earliest memories involve long car trips. Once, there was a long boat trip across the Atlantic to Germany.

My two younger sisters and I would sing songs we had learned in school for long periods, until dad would finally tell us to stop. We played the usual road games, and colored when we were younger. Reading wasn't a good idea, as it would usually lead to car sickness!

There were no fast food restaurants in the 1940's, so we had lots of roadside picnics after shopping for fixings in local stores. There weren't Interstate highways either, so we drove through the main streets of towns along our route, sometimes stopping at local diners or restaurants for meals.

Upon arrival at our destination, we had to start all over again making new friends, and learning to get around our new schools and neighborhoods. We learned to rely on each other! The older we got the more difficult it seemed to break off tender buds of friendship, and to leave behind all that had become familiar.

We used to love the stories our mother told us about her own growing-up years in a small rural north Florida town, where she had lived since she was small. Everyone in town knew all there was to know about their neighbors! It was as foreign to us as another planet. We enjoyed visiting our mother's hometown, but it could not be the place for us that it had been for her.

In 1958, I graduated from Melbourne High School on Florida's east coast. I attended this school from my junior year until my graduation. I met and married a young man from that area, and we had children and were together for many years. Still, I do not feel a deep attachment to my classmates, although I did form some friendships while I was there, and attended one reunion (the 30th).

My husband was in the U.S. Air Force when we married, having joined right after he graduated from high school, and we continued to move frequently. Even after he left the service, we continued to relocate frequently due to changes in our circumstances.

We eventually moved to Tampa, along with our three eldest children, in the early '60s. The house in which I now live alone is one we bought together in 1964. So I am now "settled" in my older years.

My early life experiences have taught me some good lessons, and some not so good.

The not-so-good lessons have been a rather detached disposition, since in my experience nothing is permanent, and a sense of there being something lacking when I hear others talking about friends they've had since childhood.

As for the good, I have lived in a number of different places, and perhaps I have acquired an education of sorts in having done so!

Thursday, 24 November 2011

Social Networking to Solve Friends Problems

In exploring ideas that leverage social networking to help common life situations, one idea that may be worth exploring is a system that lets friends share personal crises, problems, or challenges.

Social networks are usually driven by good, happy news about ourselves, not "I'm in trouble," "I have a personal crisis," etc. A system or an app can be developed that, with the right confidentiality settings, will enable friends to help each other with personal issues by tapping their collective experiences and contacts.

Perhaps these social apps would have much more controlled "broadcast" or "sharing" applications to get around the negative aspects of revealing a personal problem. Perhaps such systems would use a few close friends to be the "fronts" for the person with the crisis in broadcasting the issue and inviting recommendations for solutions (e.g. "My friend's losing his house, under his mortgage..."). This would get around having to disclose to hundreds your personal problem and would invite friends to pool in their personal networks and collective knowledge to help solve a crisis. I can see this working across realms like finance, health, relationships, depression, and beyond.

How will such an app make money? Contextual ads relevant to the problems (therapists, emergency loans, etc.) could be one solution. Perhaps the person with the problem could suggest a payment reward to anyone who helps them solve a problem when appropriate (e.g. "I'll pay 18% interest if anyone can loan me $10,000 for 6 months," or "$1000 if someone can find me a job or a new roommate.") But perhaps this won't apply to "I am severely depressed and just can't get out of it" types of crises.

It would be very interesting to experiment with such a model, and I think that tapping your daily feed to see what sort of things you can help your friends with would be extremely fulfilling. Perhaps you could reward people with points, but this would be a more methodical channel for those who just like to help out everyone whenever they can - to be pinged with a crisis that anyone in their network may have.

If this ever took off, it could actually help solve lots of personal problems, even bring people closer together (and hopefully make good money!).

Wednesday, 23 November 2011

Body Language Secrets for Attracting Woman

When it comes to the skill of how to attract women maximum of us fall back. But it is not tough at all. Neither it depends on your look, nor on the amount of bucks in your wallet and neither does it depend on your age. It's something different and the actual thing that attracts girls is your communication skill. It gets lots crazier than that, however. Communication after all is how we tend to discuss with others, right? However what would you say if it is told to you that ninetieth of our day-to-day communication is completed in an exceedingly method where you don't have to be compelled to speak at all? Yes, this is right. The bulk of what we tend to communicate doesn't even return from our mouths.

This ninetieth of communication is termed body language. Even after we aren't talking, we tend to are perpetually sending off these ‘signals' that others, girls particularly, obtain subconsciously. If you see somebody walking with their hands in their pockets and their head down, can you be additional seemingly to approach this person? Or would you be additional seemingly to approach someone with their head up and shoulders thrown back?

The greatest issue concerning modifying your body language is that the results are virtually instant. From the instant you begin using them you begin feeling higher concerning yourself and other people are additional seemingly to approach you. Let's bring up the ways of presenting body language secrets that how to attract women and it really works.

Nervous guys are perpetually fidgety and jerky. Assured men who are successful with girls build terribly controlled movements. They walk slowly and solely build controlled movements. You'll never see an assured man with restless leg syndrome or wiggling with their fingers. By slowing down your movement you're presenting to the remainder of the globe an additional "comfortable" version of yourself and it causes you to that far more approach-friendly. Once you are sitting up or in any variety of position that isn't standing up, lay back and relax. Let your arms droop down at your sides, and build yourself as snug as you probably will. Girls have a bent of "shielding" themselves from others by sitting forward with their arms folded. Don't try this because it causes you to look closed off. In any state of affairs, perpetually take up the maximum amount house as attainable. This is often a "territorial" issue that every one folks notice subconsciously. If folks see you usurping this house they'll automatically assume you to be the alpha within the area which you're the one who the foremost is laid back and fun.

Once you are walking it's important to own nice posture. Walk together with your back straight, together with your head tilted up simply a little. Stick your chest out and produce your shoulders back. It also gives the image to the girls that you are also attracted to her. Take a glance at any millionaire, rock star, or celebrity. They perpetually walk this fashion and it's as a result of they're assured with themselves. Once you are approaching girls stand or sit with your palms slightly exposed with your arms at your sides and with your legs shoulder width apart. Don't ever cross your arms or your legs as this is often an indication for being "closed" off. You never need to point out to a lot of emotion at any given time; this causes you to appear as if you aren't up to the mark of your life or your state of affairs. Whereas this is often technically speaking that tonality is additional body language then anything. People who speak quickly are typically left within the mud as a result of they either discusses with quick for folks to grasp or are embarrassing to speak too. Talking slower permits you to be additional up to the mark of what you say, it conjointly stops you from creating embarrassing mistakes like stuttering that may be a large sign of being nervous!

If you'll master each of these body language principles then you'll be in an exceedingly utterly totally different league with how to talk to girls and you will master in the skills of how to find a girlfriend.

Tuesday, 22 November 2011

Love Meter Test

In today's internet world, there are many things available for to enjoy. One of them is Love Meter Test, which is getting very popular these days. It is basically a love percentage detecting perimeter. This is truly an amazing device and by using this device now it is easy to Measure love for your loving One. As per different reviews, this device is popular because it is very easy to Operate. A person just needs to enter the names and click the "show me" for a result. Many people say that love meter test has made easy to find a soul partner in this over-populated world. The teenager girls are becoming more addicted to this device, especially girls from high school. They are really getting crazy about it. As we all know that girls are so thoughtful and so curious to know what their future holds for them with a certain someone they've a crush on.

These are a reality and human nature that he/she is capable of loving, and each person needs to be loved. Usually females are more conscious about their life partners. They really want to know the status of their love relationship. Well, no doubt that there is much other love related games and activities to do apart from the love meter test. One game named Cupid's match is also very popular and in many parties when girls and guys get together, they open up these sits and tools and match each other for compatibility just for fun. Normally couples play this love meter test game to whether they both lovers really meant to be together or not. One can also play around and introduce special names the couple which they have given each other and see what pops up.

Actually, the main reason of love meter tests is to provide entertainment and fun to people. Love's meter test is more reliable than others because it requests you to enter more detailed info about you, and your partner are closer to reality. This device is smart enough to make a rough estimate on how two persons much with each other and based on that it told a person about his or her compatibility.
Well, it is also suggested that never take such things serious.

These all are entertainment and a fun way of taking your mind of the gravity of a serious Relationship. Additionally, there are some cases in which this type of test gives people a confidence and courage to break up with people who were bad for them after discovering that their testers negative match ups.